Sex on the first date: yes or no?
You are attractive, he is damn attractive. You like him, but you do not consider him for a serious relationship. For example, you know that a man is a womanizer, and with this one would never go on a date. But if you suddenly were at one time in one place and a passion flared up between you, then you can take the opportunity and have a good time.
Or it is important for you to learn about a man as much as possible, and you are convinced that the sooner you understand what he is in bed, the better. What if he is impotent? Sex on the first date will give answers to all questions of interest, and you decide whether to continue the relationship or not.
If a man you are interested not only as a sexual object, do not jump to him in bed immediately after meeting. Little does he have any views on the relationship: suddenly he will take your impatience as promiscuity? Rest with sex 3-4 dates, at least you will find out during this time what kind of person he is.
It so happens that we are not pushed to sex by feelings that flare up, but by fear of disappointment by refusal.Someone does not want to seem too old-fashioned, someone is afraid of missing a man ... In such cases it is better to say no to sex, because you are unlikely to get pleasure from such closeness, but you are almost guaranteed disappointment and regret. Sex is good, if they engage in voluntarily, and not under the influence of fear.
Fun from a glass of wine, too, should be regarded as a brake light. You feel relaxed, desire increases, everything around you becomes so attractive. But still in this state it is better to disagree on sex. It all, of course, may well end, but it is better to be in a sober mind during sex with a new partner.
Demonstrating a man his self-confidence and freedom of opinion in this way is also not necessary. He still will not appreciate it, and if more precisely, then he does not care for all this. In this situation, he is interested in something completely different. And if absolutely frank, then a truly self-confident woman is not the one who jumps into bed on the first date to impress, but the one that can easily and naturally say no. Remember: the real reason for sex on the first date can only be your unconditional and no one imposed desire.
Is there a relationship after sex on the first date?
And that happens.But you can never know in advance how a man will react to sex. For some, this is just a stage in a relationship, and it doesn't matter if sex happened on the first or tenth date. And someone such emancipation can and confuse. And despite the fact that times have changed a lot, men still like the hunt, so if it turns out to be too easy to get you, he does not have time to feel your value, which means that the likelihood that your relationship will grow into something more serious, small.
So what to do?
In fact, there are no clear rules, to agree to sex immediately after acquaintance or to refuse. We are all different, with different upbringing and different values: what is acceptable for one may be unacceptable for the other. Therefore, the decision must be made on the basis of their own feelings and desires, not to be led by stereotypes, not to adapt to anyone, and, of course, always remember about security. Then sex on any date will give pleasure.